Should have slowed
As I'm hit, it's my fault
Fog came out of nowhere
I never saw it coming
---------------------------------------
You're cold and so am I
Can't give up, you're still alive
Now you're all that I've got
Just stay calm it won't be long
If you'd only hold on
There's no way I'm letting go
We can start again
If you'd only hold on
There's no way I'm letting go
Won't go through it again
...Do you think bout me now?
- Vib Gyor
A woman loses her husband to cancer after 60 years of marriage.
They shared a happy life together.
A 25 year old man gets into a car crash, suffers brain damage and motor loss.
His wife of 2 years leaves him.
Don't look for a hired hand.
If you need to give things in order to keep someone around you need to let them go.
Because when it all hits the fan and everything is a mess...
Can you be sure they'll stick around?
If you were in their shoes...would you stay?
For any unexpected reason or situation...would you leave?
A disease? A disability?
A change in financial or living conditions?
It isn't easy to objectively weigh stability against an individual.
Having a house, a car, and money...
...good health and a bright future.
You enter a relationship with someone you've chosen to have a future with.
But what if they already have a disease, are poor, or what have you before you date?
You wouldn't give them a second look.
It's something that's been on my mind for a few weeks.
Does commitment lead to shackles?
A month ago a clinic offered free fertility treatments to a dying man and his loving wife.
What is she thinking?
Choosing to lead a life as a single mother so her husband can achieve his dream.
I use her only as an example and am in no way judging her decision.
It's quite heartwarming actually.
But the question is about commitment.
When is the cutoff in a relationship before it becomes too late to back out?
Someone can get into an accident, lose their money, or fall ill at any time.
It's unfortunate but should it be okay to leave their now poor significant other?
What if instead they become paralysed from the neck down?
Is it okay to leave in this situation in a marriage of 20 years? or a year?
Does "til death do us part" mean anything these days?
What if they aren't married? Just a long term couple? Do you stick around anyway?
If your boyfriend or girlfriend of a month got into such circumstances...
Most likely you would want nothing to do with them.
True love is shared with someone you go through life with.
We never know what life is going to bring.
We don't know how short or long it's going to be.
It's full of twists and turns of good and bad experiences.
Some of us are more fortunate than others.
We all hope to share "true love" but how can you really know you have it?
You have their word, their faith, and their commitment so far.
Cheers to the hope of having it a lifetime.
...is what they say
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